Probably one of the weakest yet undeniable moments in our life comes when we lose control on our senses. When the situation becomes so miserable that we completely fail to get a hold on our self and calm down. We wish to have someone beside us to make us feel protected…… We want to talk to some one but there’s just silence around……. We want to be loved but there’s sheer loneliness.
This could happen in both personal & professional fronts. The moment makes us feel dejected & we seem to be losing the sense of self worth. At this point we just wish for a miracle to happen which could conveniently get things back to normal & let the whole phase pass as a nightmare. How I wish life could be steered by wishes!!
However, we should never forget that this world is meant for the brave species & strong existents. Darwin’s theory exists & implies beyond age. Trust me, if we don't take control on our life now, life probably wouldn‘t grant us a choice later.
- DON’T search for support or help outside. If we cannot support our self, then practically no body can.
- We didn’t come in this world with an expectation of support from others. God didn’t send us on somebody else’s guarantee. He has send us as an individual, then why should we look for someone else to help us for our cozy survival?
- THINK…Is breaking our self for someone or something really worth it? Will things get fine if we break down or will it get worse? Instead of collapsing in front of loneliness if we try to speak to our self, we will hear a voice. Trust me we can hear it….Just speak to yourself, ”I am with you….I am your strength…..You are not alone…Why do u cry for someone when I am here?
- Our true self will never leave us no matter what comes!
- Lets be our own friend ….love our life….treat our-self the way we expect from others…if we cant treat our-self decently well, then how can we expect from others to do so?
- Everyone faces a moment when words don’t work and preaching could not be recalled. At that time if we just talk to our-self, we will be patient and feel supported. We will not be alone any more. Our true self would be taking care of us!
- Just be sure, all good times and bad times are to pass. Nothing is here to stay for ever. When we get weak just need to remind our-self that this moment too is going to pass. It’s just a matter of time & till that anticipated period gets over, don’t feel alone. Our true self is with us…FOREVER.
IF WE CROSS THIS MOMENT WITH STRENGTH NOTHING COULD EVER MAKE US WEAK AGAIN
