Friday, April 20, 2007

When You Are Shattered by Challenges...

Mind is power & optimism is the food for a healthy soul. Everyone is facing challenges in life, be it physical, emotional or financial, the quantum or nature of suffering may vary but not the severity. If there’s suffering then it’s bound to hurt. It’s unjust to say that I am suffering more than him coz he is short of money but I am short of physical capabilities.

These unrealistic & impractical comparisons will only add up to our miseries. It’s not the time to think how much I suffer & why, rather its high time to see how I can make a difference in my life by working with these limitation. It’s better to understand this fact as early as possible that “thinking or crying won’t change the situation”. You are going to be what you are. The only thing that can create a difference is your outlook for yourself. If you think of self pity then that’s what you will get from others and if you learn to respect your existence then you will see its replica in everyone’s eye.

It’s good to be sensitive but worse to be vulnerable. When we are physically weak it becomes indispensable to be mentally strong. Survival of the fittest is the unaltered rule of life. God gives us life but the right to live is left to be earned by us. It’s our choice rather to stumble on the hurdles or get strengthened by the challenges. These are not mere motivational sentences that are written out of a fit of emotional outburst but it’s the writing of practical experience which has seen the difference these words make when adapted in true sense.

In everyone’s life there are moments of highs & lows. There are good & bad days as well. Most positive person also can’t stay positive everyday just like the fact that a doctor too needs medicine. Then what makes a person a survivor? I believe it’s the victory over those weak moments. When we learn self control & little maturity to understand our-self & the people around us then we can definitely develop the skill to keep calm during the most devastating moments of life.

Certain things are destined to happen and certain situations are bound to be faced. Circumstances can’t always be under our control. When we are in the middle of an unpleasant situation just think that everything has to pass, nothing stays forever so how can this situation stay? Trust me it works wonders, when you put constant efforts with the faith in yourself the results are favorable.

You can trash it as a piece of philosophy or adapt it as a rule of life, in anyways, it’s not going to make a difference for anyone but you. We are solely responsible for our thoughts, acts & their results, how can we blame anyone for what we are. Tools to carve our life is in our hands ….lets shape it the way we want…!

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